A Ministry of Presence

When a person is facing a life threatening or terminal illness, they become especially vulnerable. Emotions such as fear, anger, sadness, loneliness and grief often surge.  Deep questions about God, eternity and forgiveness tend to loom large, as do regrets, conflicts and unfinished business.  After symptoms are controlled and physical needs are met, what is often most essential are a listening ear and a caring heart.    
 
Everyone on the Celtic Hospice team has been taught to practice the Ministry of Presence which, in simplest terms, involves being fully present in the moment with another person.  Distractions, schedules and practicalities are set aside for a while so that focus may be solely directed toward another.  There is no agenda or planned outcome. There is only a willingness to hold a hand, to hear without judgment whatever needs to be said, to respond reflectively, or to be at peace with silence.  In some situations people cannot speak or are unable to name their needs; in these instances, it is the team’s role to be attentive and perceptive enough to discover what is waiting to be addressed.       
 
In all phases of involvement with Celtic Hospice, clients, families and caregivers are accepted and valued just as they are.  Each has a style of relating and strengths upon which to build.  Though it is not possible to eliminate their challenges and struggles, the hospice team is able to stand with them in their distress and help them to bear what seems unbearable.  We can help them to cherish the time that remains, and to let go with love.